Getting by

Being on my own has forced me to overcome many obstacles alone. Being away from my loved ones has allowed me to realize how much I relied on them- I always counted on my mother to help figure out my taxes/finances, and my dad to be my Mr.Fix-it for everything- and how much I cannot do on my own at times. It has given me the opportunity to lower my pride and accept the fact that we all need help at times. As Joe Cocker sings, "I get by with a little help from my friends."

However, in moments when I am able to conquer something on my own, it's empowering. Gaining independence has been a unique learning experience for me- one that has provoked me to stand straighter and hold my head higher.

Last night's victory:

A space heater. Assembled in 30 minutes using my mailbox key as a screwdriver. No longer will I freeze in my room at night! Be both empowered and humbled today.

love you e,
love, t.